Building personality And Changing Lifestyles

What A Father Told His Daughter A Day Before Her Wedding  My Daughter, tomorrow you will stop bearing my name. You will be happily married to the man you love. Don't miss me because I have fulfilled my purpose, it is now time for you to start fulfilling yours.  From your childhood, I have raised you well by the grace of God but before you say I do, there are few things I need to tell you about living with a man and being married.  Do you remember when you wrote your WAEC and JAMB exams? You came to me and I gave you 20,000 naira for the registration? Well, even though I gave it to you, the money was not mine. I know you always thought I paid the fees. The truth is, I was broke… but your mother gave me the money. She could have given it to you but she decided to give it to me to give to you.  Support your husband. Some times things will get tough… he will be frustrated. Even though he acts tough, in his mind he has fears… he fear you may not value him anymore because...

First, We must understand that the only thing that can sustain Anointing of God in your life is Character and not necessarily prayer as we have wrongly believed. Let us examine what  contributions and impact of these two virtues has on our overall personality and wellbeing. Sometimes You Need CHARACTER , Not Prayer. No matter how we pray, attitude has its place. This the strong truth a lot of Christians fail to understand. Prayer is good, but prayer isn't the answer to everything. Somewhere in the scriptures, the Bible says that before we pray, he will answer.. You know why? Because we've exhibited attitudes that will attract miracles .. People, sometimes pray for miracles to happen, what you need is character, not prayer, not speaking in tongues. God is a spirit, and for him to bless you, he needs to pass through a man. If you lack good relationships with men, you'll hardly be blessed.  God works with relationship. You must learn to treat people with courtesy.. The Shuna...

What is Your PDP  for 2018 ? Your PDP is Your Personal Development Plans. Your PDP must be a Detailed, Well-Structured, Articulated and Written Plan that will demand your loyalty and commitment*. Your PDP Guide must include the following: 1. Building Spiritual Capacity (Moving from Just Relationship to Quality Fellowship  with Your God ) 2. Inspirational And Motivational Books to Read in 2018 (weekly, monthly or quarterly) 3. Professional And Career Development Seminars, Conferences or Workshops to attend. (either Paid or Free*) 4. Mentors and Coaches you must connect with in 2018, that will add great value to your life and work. 5. Relevant/Additional Skills to Develop or Sharpen to enhance your ability to SERVE  people and EARN more. 6. Events, Places, Cities And Nations To Visit for personal relaxation, recreation and education. 7. Networks or Associations to join, that will serve as leverages for opportunities and connections (online or offline) 8. What Products ...

Story: The important things in life A philosophy professor stood before his class with some items on the table in front of him. When the class began, wordlessly he picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with rocks, about 2 inches in diameter. He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was. So the professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles, of course, rolled into the open areas between the rocks. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was. The professor picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up the remaining open areas of the jar. He then asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous “Yes.” “Now,” said the professor, “I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The rocks are the important things – your family, you...

I’ve learned- that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.  I’ve learned- that no matter how much I care, some people just don’t care back .  I’ve learned- that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.  I’ve learned- that no matter how good a friend is, they’re going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.  I’ve learned- that it’s not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts.  I’ve learned- that you should never ruin an apology with an excuse.  I’ve learned- that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes. After that, you’d better know something.  I’ve learned- that you shouldn’t compare yourself to the best others can do.  I’ve learned- that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.  I’ve learned- that it’s taking me a long time to become the person I want t...

Don't spend half your life telling what you are going to do and the other half explaining why you didn't do it. Mistakes have hidden power to help us, but they fail in their mission of helping us when we blame them on other people. So, Never mind whom you praise, but be careful whom you blame" {Ed. Gosse}. You can fall down many times, but you won't be a failure until you say that someone else pushed you. When you make a mistake and them make an excuse for it, you have made two mistakes. So, find a way, not an excuse. Nearly all failures come from people who have the habit of making excuses. When you're good at making excuses, it's hard to excel at anything else. An excuse is a foundation used to build a house of failure. An alibi is worse and more troubling than a lie, because an alibi is a lie wit other lies attached to it. The person who really wants to do something finds a way; others find an excuse. Don't make excuses, make progress. "A SHAD...